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Sunday, July 20th, 2008
12:00 am
[niseema]
It's not just him - It's me too
What am I going to do? I need to heal so desperately. We both react to each other --- it's not just him. I think I have BPD. I'm reading all about it.
Saturday, April 7th, 2007
10:33 am
[rdlght]
Dear Group,
Please excuse the misspelling of little katelynn's link
Here is the correct spelling.  I am sorry for any inconvience. Thank you.

Sugar and spice and everything nice.

This is suppose to every little girls life.

What happens when life is not like that?

What if your life is filled with constant abuse by the people who suppose to protect you?

For little Katelynn of Indiana, her life is filled with this from a father, stepmother and father's family; everyone but her the relatives that love her have been deined the ability to see her.

What happens when the police will not stop this?

Than try Child Protection Service, but they will not stop this either.

The next thing to do is go to the court.

What would you do if the Child Protection Services and the court helped the abusers hurt her?

The media might work but they ignore majority of average people.

In this search for help, several politicians ignored or said stop bothering them.

If these people will not help little katelynn than who will?

Will this little girl have to pay the ultimate price for these adults mistakes?

Now, what will you do?!

This is Indiana's Shame and these are Teardrops for Katelynn


referral sources:

www.courageouskids.net

Mary Kay Ash Charitable Foundation :: Breaking the Silence: Children's Stories Aired on PBS http://www.mkacf.org/BreakTheSilence.html

Breaking the Silence
http://sev.prnewswire.com/entertainment/20051019/CLW50819102005-1.html
http://www.tatgelasseur.com/pages/bts.html

Battered Women, Abused Children, and Child Custody: A NATIONAL CRISIS
http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/ 



Petition for Justice for Katelynn:
http://www.gopetition.com/online/5918.html 




Don't let these little abused children be abused in silence anymore, please.

Tell someone!

Demand answers!

Demand the children's truth!

Above all break through this silence for theses abused childrens sake!

No adults rights is greater than the right of the child to be safe!

****Please don't forget us!****
Monday, January 22nd, 2007
12:16 pm
[rdlght]
What would you do?
What would you do?

Sugar and spice and everything nice.

This is suppose to every little girls life.

What happens when life is not like that?

What if your life is filled with constant abuse by the people who suppose to protect you?

For little Katelynn of Indiana, her life is filled with this from a father, stepmother and father's family; everyone but her the relatives that love her have been deined the ability to see her.

What happens when the police will not stop this?

Than try Child Protection Service, but they will not stop this either.

The next thing to do is go to the court.

What would you do if the Child Protection Services and the court helped the abusers hurt her?

The media might work but they ignore majority of average people.

In this search for help, several politicians ignored or said stop bothering them.

If these people will not help little katelynn than who will?

Will this little girl have to pay the ultimate price for these adults mistakes?

Now, what will you do?!

This is Indiana's Shame and these are Teardrops for Katelynn


referral sources:

www.courageouskids.net

Mary Kay Ash Charitable Foundation :: Breaking the Silence: Children's Stories Aired on PBS http://www.mkacf.org/BreakTheSilence.html

Breaking the Silence
http://sev.prnewswire.com/entertainment/20051019/CLW50819102005-1.html
http://www.tatgelasseur.com/pages/bts.html

Battered Women, Abused Children, and Child Custody: A NATIONAL CRISIS
http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/

Petition for Justice for Katelynn:
http://www.gopetition.com/../5918.html

Don't let these little abused children be abused in silence anymore, please.

Tell someone!

Demand answers!

Demand the children's truth!

Above all break through this silence for theses abused childrens sake!

No adults rights is greater than the right of the child to be safe!

****Please don't forget us!**********
Sunday, October 15th, 2006
4:54 pm
[dreamerdark]
Bullying in the family: Dealing with a serial bully, psychopath or sociopath in the family
Bullying in the family

Dealing with a serial bully, psychopath or sociopath in the family


An increasing number of people are dealing with family bullying.

The violence committed by a serial bully is almost entirely psychological, for psychological violence leaves no scars and no physical evidence. Most commonly the violence takes the form of verbal abuse and emotional abuse including trivial nit-picking criticism, constant fault-finding combined with a simultaneous refusal to recognise, value, acknowledge and praise. Manipulation, isolation and exclusion are other favourite tactics, as is feigning victimhood or persecution, especially when held accountable.

The objectives of serial bullies are Power, Control, Domination and Subjugation. These are achieved by a number of means including disempowerment, the stimulation of excessive levels of fear, shame, embarrassment and guilt, manipulation (especially of emotions and perceptions), ritual humiliation and constant denial. When you live with someone who is constantly denying what they said or did a day ago, or an hour ago, or even a minute ago, it drives you crazy. When the symptoms of injury to health start to become apparent, the bully will tell others you have a "mental health problem". You may be mad, but this is not mad insane, this is mad angry.

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Serial bullies can be male or female - the main difference is that female bullies are more devious, more manipulative, more cunning, more sly, more psychological, more subtle, leave less evidence and will often bully with a smile. Female bullies will often manipulate a male into committing their violence for them. Male bullies tend to be less subtle, have a tendency towards physical aggression, and are generally less clever than female bullies. Click here for more information on female violence. Females often display a greater tendency towards attention seeking behaviours.
4:13 pm
[dreamerdark]
Excerpt from The abusive woman
- Lies and believe her own lies. Her downfall is often her belief that her opinion
and perceptions are the "correct" ones and that everyone else will see things "her"
way. Often tell completely different lies about the same incident to two people that
she should have known might talk to each other. Has problems predicting the
responses of others to her behavior. When others get furious with her has limited
understanding of her role in creating this rage.

- Possess an incredible memory for details, especially how others have wronged them.
Rarely forget a mistake that others make and constantly bring these mistakes up, even
years later. Use her memory of mistakes to degrade others in her life.

- Rarely compliments anyone; rather, she spends a great deal of time telling others how they have disappointed her.
Tuesday, June 6th, 2006
1:25 am
[dreamerdark]
- Lack boundaries into what is appropriate behavior. Appropriate behavior does not apply to them. May call a therapist, teacher or husbands boss with her opinions, believing her opinion is superior to anyone else's. Interrupts conversations.

- Constantly bring up problems, but answer "Yes, but" when given solutions to these problems. They are not looking for solutions, they like to compain and draw attention to themselves.

- Nothing is ever her fault. She may initially seem like a victim to others who do not know her well, in that she blames others. However, after getting to know her, it is apparent that she refuses to take responsibility for problems in her life.
Friday, September 23rd, 2005
2:34 pm
[dreamerdark]
Experpt from the abusive woman: characteristics
Feel free to comment on your experiences with these common characteristics of abusive women:

-Are very good at fooling people.

-Attract men into relationships the same way abusive and sadistic men attract women by being very nice in the courtship phase, building up his self-esteem. This type of woman often picks a very nice and nurturing man who likes to take care of people, i.e., police officers, ministers, and is a problem solver. She also picks a man who does not like confrontation or anger, perhaps because he was emotionally abused as a child or was taught that anger is wrong. In the beginning of the relationship she rarely shows anger, seems to love sex, and lets him be in control. They show glimpses of their true personality, but the man says to himself, "that's not the real her". Once she feels that she has his love, she begins to switch from positive to negative, putting down her husband and degrading him, being displeased with him and blaming him for every wrong she imagines she has suffered. He keeps trying to "solve the problem" by changing and doing what she wants. What he does not realize, because he is a problem-solver, is that she doesn't want the problem solved. She keeps changing what she wants to keep him off balance. "Before we were married, she was so wonderful. Mary brought me meals at work with sweet little notes in them. I thought I had died and gone to heaven. The day we got married was the last day she ever cooked a thing for me."
Tuesday, June 7th, 2005
2:13 pm
[dreamerdark]
She came home early today to try and 'catch' me doing something she could complain about as well as waking me up and now of course its too late to try and catch up on the sleep she's cost me. She's constantly trying to catch me doing something-snooping, evesdropping, coming home unexpectedly, never sticking to her plans or scedule and she comes in with this stupid little smile on her face about it real quitely. Also she sends her relatives over at random times, giving them the garage combination and leaving the front door unlocked so they just walk in on me at any time. It's like living on a fucking stage-her twisted stage of BS that she tells everyone.
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